Dr. Devesh Thakur
The video explains: 1. Self-disclosure is the intentional sharing of personal information about ourselves with others, and it exists on a spectrum ranging from simple details like favorite foods to deeply personal and private matters like past traumas. 2. The intensity and frequency of self-disclosure shape the types of relationships we have, as sharing too little can hinder connection, while sharing too much can overwhelm others. 3. Self-disclosure is a transactional process that happens over time, and it builds intimacy and mutual understanding between individuals. 4. Factors that may inhibit self-disclosure include taboos, the personal nature of the topic, undesirability, difficulty, burdensomeness, and privacy. 5. Self-disclosure has interpersonal benefits, such as forming close connections and reciprocity in liking and disclosure, as well as intrapersonal benefits like catharsis, clarification, and increased social support. 6. Responding to others' self-disclosure thoughtfully, without being dismissive or ridiculing, is crucial for maintaining healthy social and romantic relationships. 7. Responding to self-disclosure can involve asking questions, showing interest, providing social support, and matching the level of disclosure. 8. Self-disclosure can occur through various means, such as in-person, through letters, phone calls, or video. 9. The timing of self-disclosure matters, and planning it for the middle of a conversation, gauging the other person's mood, and avoiding large self-disclosures at the beginning of relationships are all considerations. 10. Self-disclosure is a complex process with both personal and interpersonal implications, impacting how individuals connect and communicate with others.
Dr. Devesh Thakur is an enthusiastic and dedicated educator with a passion for cultivating confident communicators. His love for communications & public speaking has led him to earn several certificate courses in public speaking and presentations. He has written several articles, blogs, and books on communication and interpersonal skills.
With PG & Ph.D. from the prestigious Indian Veterinary Research Institute in Extension Education, he has fifteen years of experience in teaching communication courses to varied students of agricultural universities in India. His teaching philosophy revolves around creating a supportive and engaging learning environment where students can overcome their fears and develop the art of persuasive expression. Through a combination of recorded video lectures, and personalized online support, he strives to equip learners with the tools to articulate their ideas with clarity, impact, and conviction.