Dr. Devesh Thakur
The video explains: 1. Non-defensive reaction skills are essential in interpersonal communication and relate to how we manage our self-concept and the perception others have of us. 2. Defensiveness is a response triggered when we feel our self-concept or "face" is threatened. Defensive reactions, such as sarcasm, excuses, avoidance, and denial, can be inappropriate and ineffective. 3. Non-defensive reactions validate the thoughts and feelings of others while communicating respect, and they include asking open-ended questions, guessing about specifics, agreeing with the truth, and agreeing to disagree. 4. People with inflated self-esteem often tend to become defensive when criticized and may seek reassurance. However, they are often perceived as less likable by others when rated independently.
Dr. Devesh Thakur is an enthusiastic and dedicated educator with a passion for cultivating confident communicators. His love for communications & public speaking has led him to earn several certificate courses in public speaking and presentations. He has written several articles, blogs, and books on communication and interpersonal skills.
With PG & Ph.D. from the prestigious Indian Veterinary Research Institute in Extension Education, he has fifteen years of experience in teaching communication courses to varied students of agricultural universities in India. His teaching philosophy revolves around creating a supportive and engaging learning environment where students can overcome their fears and develop the art of persuasive expression. Through a combination of recorded video lectures, and personalized online support, he strives to equip learners with the tools to articulate their ideas with clarity, impact, and conviction.